Unless you are sure you want an independent girl,
Who doesn’t need your decisions,
Only your suggestions, thoughts and opinions.
Unless you are looking for an equal, a best friend and a partner,
Not someone to be dominated upon or to execute your plans.
Unless you are mature enough to handle honest viewpoints,
Sometimes sweet, sometimes biting, no sugarcoats.
Unless you are ambitious and can appreciate ambitions of others too,
Unless you want to change the world in some way, even better if I could help you do so.
Unless you appreciate trust, loyalty and honesty,
Unless you can give your 100% on these and expect the same in return.
Unless you want sleepless nights of passionate conversations on everything from life to death,
And sometimes, just sleepless nights of passion.
Unless you want to be showered with extreme love, possessiveness and obsession,
Bordering on jealousy,
And can return the favour.
Unless you want to be dragged to extreme locations of unseen beauty, wild explorations,
Discovery of nature and rediscovery of the self.
If you are looking for just a homemaker, caretaker, a mother to your children,
Unless you understand you are looking at a person with dreams, ambitions, hopes, likes and dislikes of her own,
Unless you want to know what a seemingly unflustered person is really like when in love.
If you think these are the ravings of a romantic poet,
Which could be worked out later on,
Unless you can love as singularly, passionately, tenaciously and with dedication.
Unless you are here to stay,